After having gone through a number of blogs that I really like reading , I discovered that I ended up clicking on some comments more than others. I do not remember ever clicking on any blog comments that were not effective blog comments.
We are so worried about adding the do follow or D-List we have forgotten some communication etiquette.
I think commenting on blog is just like talking to others so why do we not follow the same rules in our blog comments?

For small bloggers like me, it may take a long while before one can get the number of comments that other big blogs get in a topic. However getting comments on out blogs is not the main thing we are after as new bloggers. We are first trying to create relationships with other bloggers so that we can grow in our blogging business.